Task = follow someone in the age range that we are aiming to research (60+). Look at their behaviour, demeanour and what they look like and make a short life bio on your observations.
Struggled to do this task I felt like a criminal; And I’m guessing must have looked like one because the security guard in M&S became very interested in me. I think he was worried that I was going to mug the old couple I was stalking.
So… I changed it to interviewing some of the older looking people who were willing to talk to me.
- Janet and Elizabeth:
Met them in the cathedral café. Jan is 52 and her mom Elizabeth is 81.
Q) how did you make it to 81?
A) well, my farther always told me you first priority should be your health so you can be a good parent by being here on earth to do the job. So he always made us eat our vegetables especial the green ones and we were not to over eat we have to have lots of walks before we sat down to dinner on an evening and then we were not allowed to eat after that until the morning. – Elizabeth
Mom has always been very active. She still likes to get her own shopping and likes to buy from the farm shop. – Jan
Q) did you know that the average life expectancy in the UK is 82
A) oh you morbid child! Is that what you’re learning about at school? – Elizabeth
(laughing) I think my mom would out live us all she has no intention of slowing down – Jan
Q) what to do think about being considered old?
A) I am. I know it in my bones. But I’m not stupid I didn’t get this far and not learn anything about life and how to be good at living it. I don’t mess about like you lot I get on with it I got to work soon as I could and started paying my mom keep. My children were expected to do the same and they did mostly. If they were not out earning they would help in the house, that how it was. – Elizabeth
We could work though mom; they didn’t ask for so many bits of paper as these kids have to have to get a job.
(she talks about her own son for a bit and asks me what I am studying.)
It’s very sad that kids nowadays don’t know how to work for a living they get no sense of value for themselves. All they can do better than us is fill in all the blasted benefit forms.
- Judy and Paul:
Meet them shopping together in the Worcester high street. I offered to help them carry a practically large item back to their car in return for help with my assignment. They were a little confused by the offer until I explained I just wanted to ask a couple of questions and they didn’t have to answer if they didn’t like the question. Judy is 60 and Paul is 64 they have been married to each other for 40 years.
Q) How did you meet?
A) Fell in love in our 20s. Paul was working for his father, and I worked in the shop front. We’d seen each other at school and we’d grown up in the same town so we knew of each other. He was a handsome man and was very tall, he had thick black hair a one time. – Judy
She was always very pretty. I was very glad when my dad hired her I said she would do well and she did he didn’t know that I fancied her. – Paul
Q) how do you feel about being considered old?
A) I guess I know that I’m because I have grandchildren and are like being a grandma and liked being a mother. It was okay to not be working and just be a mother back then. I know I’m old because I can never find glasses without my glasses actually being on my head. I don’t worry about being old it’s just something that happens to you it comes with experience which you can give that to other people. – Judy
I don’t feel old except for in the morning I feel very old then. The bodies old but the mind is not old. – Paul
Q) what do you think about today’s youth?
A) do you really want me to answer that? Well they are certainly not all as polite as you… (he thinks for a few moments) With phones being wireless and car keys being keyless and food being fatless this is all their youth being jobless and their relationships being meaningless making babies fatherless and me being speechless about it all. – Paul
Q) So are things hopeless then?
A) very cleaver. No my hopes for the future youth are endless, special in those nice girls and boys like you around. – Paul
What I think about today’s youth is that they do have an awful lot to say without really knowing what they want firstly. Majorly about what rights they have. before thinking about what right they have to any of those rights. If you get what I mean. To think that they haven’t even considered the people who fought for those rights in the first place. Aren’t you disappointed in your leaders too? – Judy